Alan's Reflections

First of all, I would like to thank you for your prayers and concern for us - Judy and me. Your prayers are especially appreciated because through prayer and God's help anything is possible. Faith, determination, family, and friends are going to be the anchors that pull me through this difficult time. (I am a Navy guy, you know.)

Some of you like to give me a hard time, that is appreciated too! I know you are just doing so because you care. I look forward to many more fun times with each of you. May God bless and keep you.

Signing off with the name my grandchildren call me,
Dude

Friday, July 25, 2008

Going in Reverse

Hello Everybody, We have had an emotional roller coaster of a week. At the first of last week they told us they were preparing to activate Alan, then by the end of the week they were backpeddling a little. When we got the call this week, we found out he will NOT be activated. Instead there are more tests to be done. Also, they want him to go the see the Social Worker and the Psychologist. They will work to make sure he has the coping skills he will need after the transplant. I think this is a good idea, the timing is what bothers us. They have been telling us he needed to see them everytime we have been here for an appointment, and Alan told them to set up the appointments and he would be there. So, we get here, have the activation so close, and now we are not sure how long before activation. Maybe a few weeks. Alan is so ready to have the transplant, and this turn of events has disappointed him very much. We have decided though that it might be for a reason. The lungs that will be the perfect match might not be ready just yet, and this is God's way of making sure the timing is perfect.

Lane and Connor went to Bible Camp this week, and Mark had to travel for business, so Traci and Anna Kate came and spent 2 nights with us. We can't tell you how wonderful it was to see them.

They are working Alan very hard at the Pepsico Fitness Center. He goes for 4 hours a day, and he is exhausted when I go to pick him up. His fortitude and determination amaze me. I know when the lungs are ready, that he will give everything he has to taking care of them and healing.

Thanks to all of you for you love, support, and encouragement. We love to hear from you through the blog, emails, phone calls, and cards. I run to the mailbox like a kid everyday.

We will post again as we have news.

3 comments:

Mary S said...

Judy and Alan,

Karl and I keep you in our prayers always. We talk about you and think of you often. God is using you for something wonderful - you should feel very proud of his faith in you. Keep up the good work and resolution will come soon enough. We love you!

Mary S

Unknown said...

Judy, I'm praying for you and Alan. The ways of medicine and insurance are strange and often scary. My mother used to say "Let me put on the Armor of God, then I'll be ready". In Alan's case, his would be a Life Preserver :)

God bless,
Patty Perkins

vickie starnes said...

Judy and Alan, We continue to pray for you guys. Can we get your address? I know it's nice to get mail from home.

Love to both of you,
Pat & Vickie Starnes